Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 Emotional infidelity is a growing problem in marriages. It occurs when a partner crosses the emotional boundary of intimacy with a friend, and the partner’s partner is not present for the consequences. #2 When you’re about to cross the line that separates the richness of friendship from the dangers of something much more intense and destructive, the most obvious red flag is that feeling of attraction that warns you to pull back. #3 The factors that allow some people to resist the temptation of attraction are vulnerability, commitment, and values. You have to meet someone who attracts you when you have the opportunity and the inclination to pursue it. #4 It is not uncommon for a concerned partner to be the first to notice that someone else is trying to slip through the marital wall. Irrational jealousy is not the same as rational jealousy, and normal interactions between spouses seem to be strategic moves in the game of seduction.