Gay Men and Anal Eroticism

2012-11-12
Gay Men and Anal Eroticism

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  • Author: Steven G. Underwood
  • Publisher: Routledge
  • ISBN: 1136571590
  • Category : Social Science
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 236

Gay men reveal their preference—and the reasons behind it! Gay Men and Anal Eroticism: Tops, Bottoms, and Versatiles is a no-holds-barred examination of one of society's most persistent taboos. In a remarkably candid collection of frank and forthright interviews, 21 gay men talk about the role anal sex plays in their lives and relationships and their choices to act as insertive (“top”) or receptive (“bottom”) partners—or both (“versatile”). Ranging in age from 21 to 65, the men discuss the reasons behind (and consequences of) their choices; how they define their sexual roles (and how those roles are defined by gay society); issues of power, trust, and vulnerability; and the concept (in both straight and gay society) that tops and bottoms are socially and morally unequal. These unique interviews, conducted by the author in the Boston and Provincetown areas, celebrate choice in gay men's sexuality while debating whether preference is genetically based or socially formed—a debate largely ignored in social science studies. The men interviewed—including gay porn icon Cole Tucker—discuss perceptions muddied by stereotypes, preconceived notions, and exaggerated scenarios, and the meanings gay men assign to anal sex, including dominance and submission roles related to masculine/feminine, aggressive/passive implications. The interviews also cover each subject's personal history as a gay man, safe sex in the AIDS era, childhood traumas, first-time sexual encounters, loves, desires, and obsessions. The interviews for Gay Men and Anal Eroticism provide insights that are equal parts thoughtful and outrageous, humorous and heartbreaking: Aaron, age 24: “I sort of fell into this image of myself as being a very aggressive bottom, a guy who knew what he wanted and who didn't want any wimps applying.” Danny, 21: “There’s a mindset about being a top … it's kinda like maintaining the ship.” Sam, 36: “I hate to say it, but I’m a bottom … I don’t like to be identified like that because I feel it turns me into something all the way from my feet up to my head.” Eddie, 42: “I guess I enjoy more being a top than a bottom because I haven't found a good top.” and Cole Tucker: “A physical act doesn't really make you a top or a bottom. It's a function, an organic function of what you do. It's the dynamics of where you come from.” The revealing disclosures of Gay Men and Anal Eroticism show equality in man-to-man sex to be as varied as the number of individuals who pursue it. Addressing traditional misunderstandings and misconceptions of gay men as either “limp-wrested fairies” or masculine “trade,” the book uncovers that there is much more to this complex issue than personal preference.

Gay Anal Sex

2013-05-01
Gay Anal Sex

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  • Author: Mike Miller
  • Publisher:
  • ISBN: 9780989139717
  • Category :
  • Languages : en
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How To Bottom Like A Porn Star.

2014-08-04
How To Bottom Like A Porn Star.

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  • Author: Woody Miller
  • Publisher: Woodpecker Media
  • ISBN: 0989139743
  • Category : Health & Fitness
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 143

How Do Gay Porn Stars Make Bottoming Look So Easy? Hung tops stick it in like a glute inject and the bottoms don’t even flinch. What’s their secret? And what can you learn from them so you can have ecstatic butt sex without any pain? Some of the answers will shock you. Learn porn star secrets to bottoming without pain and start making love with volcanic pleasure. Written by gay sex advice columnist Woody Miller and a team of urologists and colon-rectal specialists, this book combines porn industry secrets with innovative techniques from the latest gay male sex research. How We Got The Porn Industry’s Secrets To Bottoming Without Pain. We sent a team of researchers to interview a truckload of gay male erotica industry folk—cameramen, scouts, producers, directors and performers. The result is a fascinating, behind-the-scenes, no-holds-barred look into the industry and the secrets they use to get performers to bottom without pain or messy scenes. The main sections: 1: What You Can Learn From Porn Star Bottoms. A fascinating view of bottoming in the porn industry—how gay erotica performers prepare for a shoot, how they can take huge tops without any pain (even if it’s their first time) and how they stay loose despite day-long shoots. If you ever had a question about how the porn industry works, this is the place to find answers—from how much money porn stars make to what percent are heterosexual (shocking!) to their favorite brand of douches. 2: Free Your Mind, Your Butt Will Follow. How To Bottom Like A Porn Star: The Ultimate Guide To Gay Sex is part porn exposé, part how-to from the latest gay sex research. In this chapter, we’ll look at how “Anticipatory pain” and a perceived loss of masculinity can put your butt in a headlock. We’ll show you how to resolve the emotional blocks that stop you from trying or enjoying anal sex with other gay men. 3: Why It Feels Like You’re Being Impaled By A Fence Post. From our urologist and colon-rectal experts who specialize in gay male sex: It isn’t just your sphincter causing all that pain; it’s your “S-curve” as well as involuntary puborectal contractions. Learn your anatomical structure so you can make the tips in this book work better. 4: How Porn Star Bottoms Relax Their Sphincters. Not all do it, or need to, but the gay men in the sex industry that do swear by it. Find out whether you should use their controversial method. 5: The Porn Star Method Of Eliminating Pain. Find out the shocking things gay male erotica stars do to eliminate pain. Some cannot be recommended, but others can and we’ve combined them with a technique that blends systematic desensitization, pattern breathing, progressive muscle relaxation and sexual imagery to completely eliminate pain and heighten pleasure. 6: How Porn Star Bottoms Handle The Ick Factor. Find out their secrets to getting your butt cleaner than a Brady Bunch rerun. 7: A Device That’s Better Than A Douche Or An Enema. Enemas and douches are a bad idea (despite the porn industry’s reliance on them). Find out why and what product doctors recommend that will get you as clean as a douche without any of the harmful side effects. 8: How To Bottom Without Pain For The First Time. Here you’ll learn how to combine the best position with the best angle of entry. Missionary? Doggie-style? Straight in? Angled up? When it comes to gay sex, it matters. 9: A Guided Tour Of A Pain-Free Bottoming Session Between Adam And Steve. A beginner’s real-time, step-by-step guide to bottoming—porn style!-- that will light you up like an all-night liquor store. Learn How To Bottom Like A Porn Star With The Ultimate Guide To Gay Sex! Scroll up, click the buy button and start tonight!

How to Bottom Without Pain Or Stains

2012-08-15
How to Bottom Without Pain Or Stains

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  • Author: Michael Alvear
  • Publisher:
  • ISBN: 9780984916160
  • Category : Sex instruction for gay men
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 134

What Would Your Sex Life Be Like If You Could Bottom Without Pain? You'd have earthshattering orgasms. You'd experience the erotic pleasure of submitting to your partner's hardness. Sex would be more interesting because you'd add a whole new dimension to it. So what stops you? Pain. Or the fear of pain. The anticipation of it. If you're like a lot of guys, you've either tried and failed to bottom because it hurt too much or you wouldn't let yourself try because of "anticipatory anxiety" -the belief that you have to go through a lot of pain to get to the pleasure of bottoming. You might also be struggling with the "ick factor." A lot of guys are grossed out by anal sex. If you don't know how to get clean down there, the smell and the potential to leave tire tracks behind you can put you off completely. "The Sexhalation Method" Will Completely Eliminate Anal Sex Pain. Mike Alvear, the gay sex columnist and co-host of HBO's The Sex Inspectors, teamed up with colo-rectal specialists, a respiratory psychophysiologist and a yoga guru to create The Sexhalation Method. It combines progressive muscle relaxation, unique breath patterns, and sexual imagery to completely eliminate the pain associated with anal sex. Here's a list of some of the subjects you'll see in this best selling gay sex book: How to stop the feeling that you're going to go on yourself when he's in you. A step-by-step guide to stretching your sphincter so you can take bigger guys. How to deal with emotional blocks that stop you from trying to bottom. How to eliminate hygiene fears and put you in the right frame of mind. Butt tightening exercises that'll keep you tight and him happy. How to get over the hang-up that "real men" don't bottom. How to pick the right adult toy for you. How to choose the best lube. The proper way to use butt plugs, dildos and other toys. Gay sex doesn't have to hurt. You just need to learn The Sexhalation Method. This gay best seller also answers letters from real gay men trying--and failing-- to make male anal sex work. You'll find answers to every question you have, including: "Will I end up wearing diapers if I bottom for hung guys?" "Why does my penis go soft when I bottom?" "Why does my partner lose his hard-on when he's about to enter me?" How do I get my bottom boyfriend to top me?" "Does bottoming cause hemorrhoids?" "We're both bottoms. How do I wake up my inner top?" "How do I get over my disgust of anal sex?" "How can I change my identity as a gay bottom to being more versatile?" "Does bottoming cause anal cancer?" "Why can't he come when I bottom for him?" " Which condoms should I buy?" "How do you put on a condom correctly?" "How do I get myself to use condoms if I hate them?" "What's the secret to staying hard with a condom on?" "Am I wrong to insist on condoms even though we're monogamous?" "How can I top a top?" "I can't bottom without getting stoned first. Is that bad?" "Is anal bleaching safe?" "Can I get HIV from oral sex?" "How can I get HIV if I'm a top?" Find out how The Sexhalation Method can take your sex life to the next level!

The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex

2011-05-11
The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex

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  • Author: Stephen E. Goldstone
  • Publisher: Dell
  • ISBN: 0307788776
  • Category : Social Science
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 289

Finally--the book for every gay man's bedside table. At last! Answers to the questions you're too embarrassed to ask--but always wanted to know! Why does it hurt down there? Is it really safe to do that? What does it mean when something looks like this--and how do I make it go away? Chances are you never learned anything about gay intimacy from your parents, your school, or your family physician. Here, at last, is reliable, comprehensive information on a wide spectrum of gay medical concerns, written by an eminent surgeon and recognized authority on gay health issues. With up-to-date facts, interviews, and case studies from the author's practice, The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex goes far beyond HIV concerns, combining a complete education about the safe and pleasurable practices of male-male sexuality with a comprehensive medical volume. Here are the facts about what you need to know to keep your sex life hot and healthy, including: The rules of safe anorectal stimulation. Symptoms to send you running to the doctor. Foreplay, sex toys, and other accessories. Viral and nonviral STDs-don't wake up with an unpleasant surprise! Treatments for impotence and other sexual dysfunctions. Diseases that can be spread without penetration. Drugs...relationships...doctors (how to find the right one for you), and much more.

The Sexhalation Approach

2015-01-08
The Sexhalation Approach

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  • Author: Mike Alvear
  • Publisher: Woodpecker Media
  • ISBN:
  • Category : Education
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 135

This Book Will Show You How To Have Pain-Free Anal Sex So That You Can: • Have explosive orgasms • Experience the presence of another man inside of you • Explore a side you’ve wanted to but were too afraid to try • Feel what it’s like to submit to another man • Become more sensuous and sexually versatile • Use the experience of bottoming to be a better top There’s Only One Thing Stopping You From Becoming More Sexually Versatile: Pain! If you’ve never had anal sex you probably approach it with “anticipatory pain” (the expectation that it’s going to feel like being impaled by a fence post). Or maybe you’ve tried to bottom and it actually felt like that. Either way, you end up getting Anal Glaucoma. That’s where you say to your partner, “I can’t see you in my ass.” How To Eliminate All Pain From Gay Anal Sex. Bottoming is not the sexual equivalent of walking over hot coals. You don’t have to put yourself through hell to get to the other side. You just have to use The Sexhalation Method. It’s a new technique developed with the help of a team of experts I met while writing my gay sex column and hosting the HBO series, The Sex Inspectors. They include a yoga guru, an expert in respiratory psychophysiology, and specialists in colo-rectal anatomy. The Sexhalation Method combines systematic desensitization, pattern breathing, progressive muscle relaxation and sexual imagery to help you achieve what you thought wasn’t possible—bottoming without pain. In addition to The Sexhalation Method you’ll learn: • How to combine the best position with the best angle of entry. • How to resolve emotional blocks that stop you from trying or enjoying anal sex. • How your butt is built so you can avoid the three main points of pain. • The secret to getting yourself squeaky clean on the inside. • Learn about a device that’s better than a douche or an enema. • Get a guided tour of a pain-free bottoming session between Adam and his boyfriend Steve. It’s a beginner’s real-time, step-by-step guide to bottoming that will light you up like an all-night liquor store. Find out how The Sexhalation Method will make you a better lover. Scroll up, click the buy button and start learning the method tonight! Category: Gay Books > Gay Sex> Male Anal Sex

The Ass Book

2013
The Ass Book

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  • Author: Micha Schulze
  • Publisher: Bruno Gmuender
  • ISBN: 9783867875257
  • Category : Anal sex
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 0

Finally a comprehensive guide to a man's second most important sensual organ! Designed for practical use, "The Ass Book" tells you how you and your partner can get more pleasure from your backside. The authors not only provide you with crucial information about anatomy, but give you useful tips to improve your health, fitness, and appearance and of course for better fun down under. Easy-to-understand and written with the gay man in mind, this book is rounded out with advice from experts and interesting sections on the rear in art, literature, and psychology.

How to Top Like a Stud

2015-07-22
How to Top Like a Stud

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  • Author: Michael Alvear
  • Publisher: Woodpecker Media
  • ISBN: 9781515191216
  • Category :
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 150

The First Sex Guide For Tops! Techniques to keep your partner''s sphincter completely relaxed * How to overcome hygiene worries * New speed, depth and thrusting techniques * How to discover your inner top * Getting hard & staying hard, even with a condom * Solutions to emotional blocks * Using the "Erotic Feedback Loop" to maximize pleasure. * Keep His Sphincter Completely Relaxed As You Enter Him Say goodbye to failed attempts at intercourse because your partner couldn''t take the pain. This wildly clever method turns a well-known fact of physiology into a little-known secret to complete relaxation. * Overcome Hygiene Worries Learn proven strategies for overcoming the fear and revulsion of undesirable sights and smells. A popular chapter in this gay sex guide. * Learn New Speed, Depth & Thrusting Techniques Along with the single best angle to enter him for the most pleasure and the least pain. * Discover Your Inner Top. Learn how to overcome self-limiting thoughts ("I''m not masculine enough," "My dick isn''t big enough") that stop you from trying to top or from doing it successfully. Be A Better Lover With The First Gay Sex Manual For Tops. Stop thinking that all you have to do is get it hard and put it in. Good tops are made not born. Whether you''re a bottom looking to be more versatile or a top who wants a better experience, this book will show you how to give and get more pleasure as the penetrator in gay sex. Express The Kind Of Masculinity You Feel Comfortable With. You don''t have to act like a cop to be a top. Choose from a spectrum of possibilities you hadn''t thought of to have the kind of topping experience that personally appeals to you. Take the Erotic Temperature Quiz in this gay sex instruction book and find out your "topping personality." Generate More Passion By Engaging The Erotic Feedback Loop. This book on male anal sex has plenty of tips to sharpen your techniques. But stopping there would just make you a skilled worker. Being good in bed isn''t about what you can do to him; it''s about where you can take him. While you can''t "learn" passion, you can learn how to set the stage to express it in your own unique way. That''s where the "Erotic Feedback Loop" approach comes in. It creates an energy spiral that''ll book your partner on an inter-planetary flight. It''s easy to learn and even easier to apply. Solutions To Performance Anxiety. Find out how to deal with these erection-killing thoughts: * You won''t get hard enough * Your dick isn''t big enough * You will disappoint your partner * Your partner will compare you to other guys * Your partner will judge you and tell the world * You''ll ejaculate too soon * You''ll take forever to ejaculate Keeping It Hard For The Condom. There you are with a raging hard-on but the second the condom goes on you go limp. This gay anal sex guide shows you three of the most effective things you can do to keep an erection with a condom on. How To Last Longer In Bed. Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction in men under 40. Use our step-by-step "Stop/Start" method to go from two-pump chump to long-time champ. How To Stop Worrying That Your Penis Isn''t Big Enough To Top. Read the Journal of Sex''s latest penis size stats for white, black & Hispanic men. After you get over the shock of how small the average is, compare by measuring yourself with a step-by-step guide urologists use to measure penis size. You''ll Also Find Answers To Fascinating Questions Like... * Should your partner use poppers? * How to wring up to 10% more semen out of your ejaculation (a STELLAR tip). * Do guys with big dicks have more trouble with erections? * How it''s possible for tops to get HIV. * How many drinks can you have before you start having erection trouble?

How to Bottom Like a Porn Star. the Guide to Gay Anal Sex.

2014-02
How to Bottom Like a Porn Star. the Guide to Gay Anal Sex.

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  • Author: Miller Woody
  • Publisher:
  • ISBN: 9781494900670
  • Category :
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 138

How Do Gay Porn Stars Make Bottoming Look So Easy? Hung tops stick it in like a glute inject and the bottoms don't even flinch. What's their secret? And what can you learn from them so you can have ecstatic butt sex without any pain? Some of the answers will shock you. Learn porn star secrets to bottoming without pain and start making love with volcanic pleasure. Written by gay sex advice columnist Woody Miller and a team of urologists and colon-rectal specialists, this book combines porn industry secrets with innovative techniques from the latest gay male sex research. How We Got The Porn Industry's Secrets To Bottoming Without Pain. We sent a team of researchers to interview a truckload of gay male erotica industry folk-cameramen, scouts, producers, directors and performers. The result is a fascinating, behind-the-scenes, no-holds-barred look into the industry and the secrets they use to get performers to bottom without pain or messy scenes. The main sections: 1: What You Can Learn From Porn Star Bottoms. A fascinating view of bottoming in the porn industry-how gay erotica performers prepare for a shoot, how they can take huge tops without any pain (even if it's their first time) and how they stay loose despite day-long shoots. If you ever had a question about how the porn industry works, this is the place to find answers-from how much money porn stars make to what percent are heterosexual (shocking!) to their favorite brand of douches. 2: Free Your Mind, Your Butt Will Follow. How To Bottom Like A Porn Star: The Ultimate Guide To Gay Sex is part porn expose, part how-to from the latest gay sex research. In this chapter, we'll look at how "Anticipatory pain" and a perceived loss of masculinity can put your butt in a headlock. We'll show you how to resolve the emotional blocks that stop you from trying or enjoying anal sex with other gay men. 3: Why It Feels Like You're Being Impaled By A Fence Post. From our urologist and colon-rectal experts who specialize in gay male sex: It isn't just your sphincter causing all that pain; it's your "S-curve" as well as involuntary puborectal contractions. Learn your anatomical structure so you can make the tips in this book work better. 4: How Porn Star Bottoms Relax Their Sphincters. Not all do it, or need to, but the gay men in the sex industry that do swear by it. Find out whether you should use their controversial method. 5: The Porn Star Method Of Eliminating Pain. Find out the shocking things gay male erotica stars do to eliminate pain. Some cannot be recommended, but others can and we've combined them with a technique that blends systematic desensitization, pattern breathing, progressive muscle relaxation and sexual imagery to completely eliminate pain and heighten pleasure. 6: How Porn Star Bottoms Handle The Ick Factor. Find out their secrets to getting your butt cleaner than a Brady Bunch rerun. 7: A Device That's Better Than A Douche Or An Enema. Enemas and douches are a bad idea (despite the porn industry's reliance on them). Find out why and what product doctors recommend that will get you as clean as a douche without any of the harmful side effects. 8: How To Bottom Without Pain For The First Time. Here you'll learn how to combine the best position with the best angle of entry. Missionary? Doggie-style? Straight in? Angled up? When it comes to gay sex, it matters. 9: A Guided Tour Of A Pain-Free Bottoming Session Between Adam And Steve. A beginner's real-time, step-by-step guide to bottoming-porn style!-- that will light you up like an all-night liquor store. Learn How To Bottom Like A Porn Star With The Ultimate Guide To Gay Sex!

The Ass Book. Staying on Top of Your Bottom

2013-04-27
The Ass Book. Staying on Top of Your Bottom

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  • Author: Micha Schulze
  • Publisher: Bruno-Books
  • ISBN: 3867875537
  • Category : Health & Fitness
  • Languages : en
  • Pages : 139

Everything for a Hot Bottom! Finally a comprehensive guide to a man's second most important sex organ! Designed for practical use, The Ass Book tells you how you and your partner can get more pleasure from your backside. The authors not only provide you with crucial information about anatomy, but give you useful tips to improve your health, fitness, and appearance-and of course for better sex "down under." Easy-to-understand and written with the gay man in mind, this book is rounded out with advice from experts and interesting sections on the ass in art, literature, and psychology.